The Relationship Tip

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …

A typical problem for clients of mine is their belief that they have to lose 50 pounds and be financially secure prior to being able to attract lasting love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.

It’s great to want to appear your best, be your best, have high self-esteem and feel good about your money situation. It feels truly wonderful to feel stable, confident, and attractive.

There are a HUGE number of corporations that feed on peoples’ low sense of self-image. At some point or other, we have all fallen prey to buying that hot new exercise machine that promises to make it simple for us to tone up, slim down and have a beautiful self. Supplements, special diet foods or dieting plans, products for our hair, skin, teeth, libido, you name it! And these things are directly centered around one simple idea – that we’re not inherently OK the way we already are.

We’re so accustomed to this type of thought pattern that we hardly even what’s] happening to us. It is not surprising that we subscribe to this. After all, when we arrive here, at the beginning of our existence, we’re admired and perfect – mostly. Then almost immediately we’re being compared to how our older sibling did things, at what age they developed this ability, sitting, crawling, language, and so on. Our hair, our bodies and how they are the same or different to the other one or that. “Oh, she looks similar to Aunt Mary when she was that age.” You understand the pattern.

Begin by examining your early beliefs and emotions about your body. Many people do not actually understand that they have persisting energy or emotions from these early experiences. Negative emotion, whether pervading or subtle, doesn’t feel good and many of us just teach ourselves to subjugate it, deal with it, or drive it further into the underbelly of your mind. These influential emotional experiences usually stay buried. We’ve all heard the term “emotional baggage.” We go through life with old unresolved, paining, hard to deal with feelings continuing to be held somewhere in us. Those emotions emanate to the Universe to mirror back more of the same. You can free yourself by improving your self-esteem.

Begin to change your relationship with yourself by creating a list of what you appreciate about you. What truly works about your body? What can you love about your appearance? Think of 5 affirmations each day that you truly appreciate about your body. Do you like your eyes? Are you thankful for working fingers? Make a list of the positive things about you and view your energy and vibrational level of attraction begin to soar. You CAN improve your self-esteem and attract love.

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …

“I do not wish to be hurt continuously, but I truly want to be with my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate”?

You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you’ve had adequate time in between the pain in your previous relationship or 2) start healing and releasing the past. Considering you desire to reach your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of releasing. It’s quicker and simpler than you think. Receiving help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.

Receiving guidance to do release work is a path of releasing and letting go from the past. Consider emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are creating energetic area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.

I can hear some of you right now crying “Yeah but, I do not think he really needs to be let off the hook for his actions. He wronged me and that is just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You are allowing your happiness to be drained away from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy field and after a while, it will deplete you, if it has not already. What’s more, that little energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your power focused in this present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you think you’re going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy field and block you from moving in the right direction to creating the life you were born to live. You can increase the speed of the process immensely by getting help from a life coach.

I find that the topic of forgiveness can be a loaded one. Firstly, I’m not speaking about the kind of forgiving where we were excusing someone’s bad behavior. It is important to have clear boundaries set for you. And to know how you feel about who you desire in your life and who you do not, how you want to spend your life and with whom. It’s essential to realize what works for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the space of hurt, you’ll either attract more hurt or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.

As long as you realize you’re deciding that rather than throwing up your hands out of frustration that you have not created the love of your dreams. You can acquire it all in a relationship and in your life.

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It’s necessary to release even for those of you who don’t think there’s anything left to forgive. Forgiveness is an ongoing process and one that frees YOU the most.

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