The Relationship Tip

Let’s start out by talking about the laws of nature.

When it rains you get wet. Big animals eat small animals. If you don’t drink water you will die. People cheat on each other.

Did you catch the last one?

Human beings are not monogamous by nature. We don’t mate exclusively for life with the first partner we choose.

We have many mates throughout our lifetime.

And we don’t just have sex to reproduce.

Some animals do. Human beings do not.

But when it comes to infidelity, people think that the laws of nature do not apply to them.

They think that no one would ever cheat on them because they’re too good in bed, too good looking, too wealthy, too good at this, too good at that and so on and so on.

“He would never do that to me, he loves me”

“She would never do that, she has it too good”

The #1 biggest, most notorious reason why affairs go undetected is because people refuse to believe that it can happen to them.

Well let me tell you right now that the laws of nature apply to everyone — including you.

I don’t care who you are – a celebrity – a bum – a mother - a father – a nobody.

Anyone, and I mean anyone, can cheat on you.

If you don’t accept this fact, you will miss every little thing your lover does that screams “I’m cheating on you”.

Let me tell you a little story…

An old friend came to my door one day to cry on my shoulder about the troubles he was having with his wife.

She was doing all of this strange things, he saw her hugging another man in a parking lot, she wouldn’t sleep in the same bed with him and so on.

I mean any 6 year old could have seen she was cheating on him.

It was that obvious.

But he refused to believe it.

Why?

Well here were his answers, in order:

1. He pays for everything and he doesn’t cheat on her, so why would she cheat?

2. He asked her if she was cheating and she said no.

3. He’s smarter than her.

This is the perfect example of someone who doesn’t think the laws of nature apply to them.

He couldn’t believe that someone would cheat on him. He couldn’t “get over himself”.

And the fact of the matter is that almost everyone thinks this way at one time or another.

If you don’t believe that it can happen to you, if you think that you are that one special person in the universe where the laws of nature don’t apply to you, you’re going to have a miserable time of it.

Want to know what ended up happening to my old friend?

He’s currently going through a bitter divorce that he doesn’t want. She left him and was the one that filed. And gee, she also has a boyfriend that works at the same place she does!

And he still can’t believe what’s happening to him!

Does this sound similar to anyone you know?

Now let’s recap the most important points for you to know:

1. You must accept the cold hard facts that anyone can and will cheat on you. It’s human nature. If you don’t “get over yourself” and accept this, you’re in for a lot of misery.

2. Don’t ever expect your lover to admit to you that they are having an affair. If you’re waiting for this to happen, it will be the longest wait of your life.

There’s something going on. Now take action to find out how to catch your cheating lover.

Should I tell my spouse I know she is cheating? Do you know how many people throughout our lifetime has came up to us and asked us this question? We have had many friends in our lifetime and many clients that have asked us this questions.

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After a thirty year marriage ended in divorce three years ago, Christine Shiber was happy to be single and looking forward to meeting someone new. But it has not been easy:

She has tried social networking, going to dance clubs, reconnecting with friends at her class reunion (all married), waiting for something magic to happen and online dating. “When you’re 18, you just jump in,” she said. “Now, I worry. What do I need to know about him and what do I need to share about myself — with a whole lifetime to pick from?

“You’re looking for chemistry, but smart enough to know instant chemistry might not be the right chemistry. You might not feel real chemistry until you really know the person.

“How much time and energy should I put into this process?”

She understands why several of her female friends have given up.

Shiber has not given up but the statistics show how tough it is for women over 50.

From  ABC Flirt:

However, some people that have already signed up on match dating sites may still have a hard time stumbling on that person that will give him or her the date of his or her lifetime. Why?

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