The Relationship Tip

Are you having trouble not knowing for sure whether he may feel the same way as you do. Wouldn’t it be great to know what the signs whether he is into you or not?

If you are doubt and you always ask yourself whether he is interested in you or not, then you need some clues for him to make you sure. Here are 2 fool proof ways to find out that he is into you.

1. Just Ask him directly!

Ask him. If he says he likes you in a way that he likes you and not as friend, then case is closed. You are done! This will save you a lot of time. If he says no, then you can understand that he doesn’t and may not even after knowing you for a bit of time. Therefore, you need to think positive, step back a moment and learn skills on how to attract your dream guys!

2. Find the signs that he is interested on you!

How can you tell if a guy likes you? You like him, but you are so afraid to ask him. You feel it in the gut that he likes you back, but you need some substantial proof. So, these signs below can help you.

* He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
* He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
* He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
* He stutters when he speaks to you.
* He notices slight changes in your appearance.
* His friends all know you when you don’t know them.
* He always calls you and wants to know how your doing
* He starts acting nicer when you’re around him

Finally, I want to remind that you must never obsess with a guy you can never have. There are so many more fish in the sea, so many more guys you can love who actually deserve your love.

Do not ever hurt yourself for some guy who will never learn to appreciate you. Just go with your heart, take care of yourself, and let things happen naturally. If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. Good Luck!

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As someone who sees herself as a bit “girl power” I resent books like “The Rules” which make those of us over 40 and single feel like failures. Like we never joined the secret “how to get married” club, or rather we never got invited.

So for all those of us who actually like being single and do not need to be married to prove we are in fact really women and not men in drag I dedicate this article. If you are with a man and want to get rid of him and let him think he did it himself, or you are with a man and he is getting a bit too serious, then read on:

It is commonly thought that men run from commitment and so turning up for a date in a wedding dress or meeting his parents and asking “can I call you Mom?” used to be a sure fire way of getting rid of him. However the rise of the “metro sexual” man has put paid to all of that. Men now want to talk about feelings and steal our hair products so we need a new strategy.

If you are dating a man whose beauty regime makes yours look like a slap in the face with a damp towel, then competing with him means buying better products than he does.

Ok so it goes against the grain to spend 20 on moisturiser when you have saddle soap and an old packet of lard in the cupboard, but buy it you must. A cheaper version of this is to find a friend with lots of expensive products and steam off the labels.

Although I suppose if she wasn’t going to notice you steaming the labels off she probably wouldn’t spot you taking them altogether.

Make a big show of using the expensive stuff then pick his up, look at it, and put it back down with a sigh. Look at him at this moment and tell him how lovely his skin looks.

Even if that happens to be true, the seed of doubt will have been sown. No man can compete with a woman whose beauty products are better than his and he will want to trade you in for a woman who wears no make up and wants to bask in his glory.

Men can get very involved in the bits that used to be “just for girls”. Like planning the wedding and looking at catalogues. So if you are dating mature, “planning for the future” man, it’s a good idea to paint a really bad picture of your potential life together.

Conversations about him giving up his football/ beer/friends/family/job will usually make the bravest of them stop and think. Too many times you let them steer the conversation into how much they love you, how lovely it will be to be together all the time, how they don’t need anyone else.

Make them realise that those situations would be non existent and that your time together now is only bearable because of the interruptions from football/beer/friends/family/job. If he is really stubborn (or blinded by love as they like to see it) then make him give up everything else for 2 weeks.

I mean everything. He cannot do a thing unless it is with you. Drive him to work, pick him up afterwards. Go out with him, wait at the gym for him, drink with him and talk to him constantly. Let’s be honest here, would you want to see that much of yourself?

Independent men used to be easily scared off. Being too clingy, especially in front of their friends did the trick with embarrassing ease. These days it isn’t enough. Independent man now wants a clingy woman to endorse his manliness and confirm his desirability in front of his mates.

So the trick here is to be two women. That’s in an emotional sense, not in a scary wearing a wig, pretending to be your own twin way. When alone be very clingy. Want his whole itinerary, ask to see his texts, ring him as long as he’s alone. Talk a lot about “next year” and “the wedding”.

As soon as his mates are there, act like he is invisible. He will be telling his mates how badly you want him and how he is stringing you along. They will laugh at how you discuss wedding plans with him and how you think you’ll be together next year.

Once they can hear, do the opposite. If he mentions plans for next week, smile and say “let’s see how we feel then”. Any mention of weddings and rings, look sadly at him and say “I don’t want to embarrass you in front of your friends, let’s talk when we’re alone”. At this point, look directly at one of his mates and roll your eyes. He’ll be gone in a week.

I thought Neanderthal man was long dead. Not literally of course, I did do history at school and I am aware he’s been gone a while. No I mean the one man type we all recognise even without realising we think men fit into types. This one looks a bit odd.

They have a slightly “missing link” look about them, communicate in grunts and live on beer. Women only exist to them as servants and housekeepers oh and sexual slaves of course. Bizarrely for all their simple behaviour, a lot of women like them.

This seems to be because they have a strong base instinct for protecting their women. They can be spotted in bars as the ones saying “don’t touch/look at/buy a drink for, breathe near MY woman” whilst adopting a stance of readiness for action.

This stance shows itself as having a chest sticking out further than their feet, hands clenching and unclenching and a woman clinging to their arm saying “don’t hit him, he wasn’t doing nothing, he ain’t worth it”.

Getting rid of this one is relatively easy. They want a girl to be a girl. You have to need them. I mean really need them to the point of helplessness. You have to become so weak you cannot open a single jar yourself. Nor can you open doors, lift shopping bags or drive a car.

Strangely though you can lift lots of washing and open any type of beer can with your teeth. So if he comes home to find you have driven to the shops, opened several jars to make dinner including the one he couldn’t open himself and fixed the oil leak on the car, he is history.

If there is any final resistance, add that you have bought him a pink shirt and some facial products and you have enrolled you both into a “getting to know your partner” class and he won’t just leave the house, he’ll move away.

If your man isn’t really a type then try some general tactics. Leaving a copy of “How to Please your Woman in Bed, improve your technique” on the coffee table when friends are coming can help. Crashing his car or if you want more prolonged torture, just driving it really badly will eventually drive him nuts. Selling his car to buy something really girly often finishes a relationship completely. Giving him shopping lists is simple and cheap. One hidden in his wallet so it falls out at the office lunchtime drink works a treat.

I suppose there’s one last thing to try. You could bring back the art of conversation. Just tell him. Men can’t multi task so don’t tell him when he’s washing up, watching tv, shaving or dressing. In fact definitely not when shaving. If any of it did get through he’s likely to slice his face open.

Plan your words carefully. Don’t waffle. Explain that you were really just looking for sex and someone to buy dinner for you and that all your friends are fixed up and you felt left out. Say you don’t want to lose him but that you wanted a man who just popped in occasionally and who fainted at the words commitment and feelings.

If at this point he cries or tries to cut himself with his razor (I told you not to do it when he’s shaving) then put his stuff in a bag and call him a taxi. If though he laughs, says “Thank God for that I can stop pretending” and leaves the washing up half finished (I told you…) then I’d keep him… For EVER!

If you have lost hope in finding someone special on online dating sites then we are here to rescue you. We have listed few main blunders that usually women make on online dating sites. Boost your success rate considerably by avoiding all these mistakes and choose a right plan to get charming men for dating.

Are you tired of sitting in front of your computer screen and just dieing to get a message from handsome men? Daily you check your scrap book hoping today you will get some message but to your disappointment no handsome men contacted you so far.
Have you given up?!

Listen to your intuition

If you have a feel that he is not the right man you are talking to, then don’t ignore your intuition. Whenever you have a slight doubt that the man is hiding something or pretending to be someone he is not then chances are your intuitions are warning you to be safe.

Filter your dates and meet only those who genuinely interest you, instead of wasting your time in trying your luck on total strangers. This approach always work in brushing away all the bad dates.

Don’t wait for men to write to you first

Most women believe in the very traditional approach that men approach women for dates. Are you visiting handsome men profiles on online dating and totally drooling over some of them!

You do pause for a while but you can’t really make up your mind whether you should drop a message or not. Women think that if they will approach men first then may be it will give a sign that we are desperate!

Mostly women want men to approach them. And it’s a very fact that women feel awkward in approaching men first, no matter how madly they are attracted towards them.

Actually, the truth is men love it when women approach them. So from now onwards if you like some man’s profiles just don’t hesitate to send a short text message. Most probably, you will get a reply back and from there on you can take it further!!

Just make sure that you upload an interesting profile o dating sites! So don’t waste your time in just waiting for handsome men to get in touch with you first.

Don’t judge them by their profiles.

Come on women! Generally, women exaggerate their actual height by an inch and lower their weight by at least 30 pounds! Then why it’s an issue if men exaggerate on their height.

And how can you forget the very fact that how many women literally tell their real age!! Don’t judge any men before you actually communicate with them for some time period.

Don’t form your opinion from the profiles which you browse on online dating sites because the real side only comes out when you actually communicate with them.

Don’t feel ditched!

You met some man through online dating site and you plan to meet him. Both of you really had a good time but suddenly he just vanished. And you end up wondering that where you went wrong. Don’t fool yourself by presuming that you are the only one for him.

Men also have many choices the same way women have. If you presume that you are the only one he met through online dating then you must be completely wrong.

Don’t rush into meeting men

Once you start to feel a comfort level with him and it’s hardly been a month of knowing each other. You probably end up getting curious to meet him to check the chemistry in real. Don’t rush into it!

Most women end up disappointed after meeting the men in real life. Women you need to remember that online dating requires some screening before you actually make up your mind to meet the person in real.

Take enough time to get to know each other through voice chat or text messages. You should at least take 4-5 months of time to know him before you plan to meet him personally. It’s a better choice to meet one genuine man in 6 months instead of 5 pricks in a month!

It is not working the way you thought it will

When you enrolled on to the online dating site you perceived it to be an easy dating game! You have never faced any problem in attracting men in your real life. You are pretty, intelligent and a great company to hang around with.

But surprisingly, men who are contacting you on online dating sites are not of your taste. You know there are decent men out there but why are you not being approached by them?!

It’s quite simple. There are hundreds of options for them and they are going to make the best choices! It’s a fact that women usually want to be approached by men!! Don’t hesitate to browse profiles on online dating sites and message those men you found attractive.

Don’t get frustrated too easily

It’s obvious that sometimes on online dating sites you will get emails of men who are stupid, brainless and annoying. Don’t get aggravated, all you have to do is to ignore them. If they still keep on bothering you like an idiot then just avoid them.

Don’t waste your time in replying back to them. You can’t eliminate their names from the dating site, they have the right to post messages to anyone they would like to, after all they are also the member of the site like everybody else.

Mostly women reply back giving them warnings but you know that it won’t be of any use! As a smart woman all you have to do is to delete the emails you find exasperating and carry on with decent men!

Right approach decides it all

If you think that you don’t get right men on online dating sites as they are not genuine. Then my dear friend your presumption is totally wrong! There are millions of great single men out on online dating sites who are handsome, tall, and intelligent.

The only factor which counts in attracting men on dating sites is your outlook towards them. Your success rate is determined only by the way you carry it forward. You need to plan your approach with the right attitude.

Unrealistic time- line

Sometimes women set unrealistic expectations! If you hope to meet a decent man in a month of you posting your profile on a dating site then it’s impractical.

You won’t be getting your soul mate in a month or so! Obviously you will be disappointed if you expect to come across your prince charming in that short period.

In reality we all know that how difficult it is to find soul mates. But then why women lack patience on dating sites. Don’t just quit and stick to it for some time period!

So finally, now after reading these online dating tips you know what kind of mistakes you have been committing. From now onwards just avoid these mistakes and considerably increase your success rate on online dating sites.

Article by Veronica Ghomnes

The author is an expert in communication skills and providing creative dating tips. You can read more about exciting and effective articles on love, romance, relationship, child abuse and many other hot issues at http://www.embraceyourlove.com

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Are there any signs that makes you know if you are in the right relationship? After breaking up and getting back together, you may tend to have overseen something that is crystal clear to everyone except you that there is something wrong in your relationship. So how do you really know if you are in the right relationship?

Determining the person if they are right for you cannot be possible. But what you can determine right now is if the relationship you are in right now is right. Things will eventually change but right now, you have to look at the present and ask yourself am I in the right relationship?

Several questions can be asked to let you know if the relationship is the right relationship? You may ask yourself Am I happy? There will be several answers that will come up but you must focus on the things that make you happy when you are with them.

You may have a doubt now and then or a bad feeling, but if your feelings toward the person and the relationship are mostly positive, then you could be in a great relationship. Don’t let the odd doubt or strange feeling make you wonder if you’ve made a mistake.

When there are time when you feel sad ask yourself if it is because you want to be with someone else or can it be that you are thinking of the possibilities if you were not tied down by this relationship that you have now? Are these the reasons why you are sad and feeling so down lately?

Everyone thinks things like that from time to time. But if you’re preoccupied by what ifs and if only thoughts, you might not be in the right relationship after all.

Ask yourself if you are safe in your relationship. Are you sure you will not be physically abused? This will also apply to your psychological aspect. They should not hurt you emotionally too.

You are probably in the wrong relationship when you are constantly asking yourself if you are under constant threat of breakups. You are also in the wrong relationship when you know that they are capable of cheating on you.

Make sure that your doubts are reasonable also. You should not spend all your time in looking after their actions. You should not just base your decisions on unproven theories. You are just wasting your time.

Are you sure they are susceptible in cheating on you? Maybe it is just your lack of confidence that makes you think of these things. But if you are certain they can cheat or are cheating on you then you are probably in a wrong relationship and there is no need to prolong it.

Do you feel special? If you feel like you’re constantly fighting for the other persons attention and affection, you might look for someone else. You should feel like the person most important to them if you’re in the right relationship.