It seems like after infidelity everything is in a state of flux. Your whole world is turning one way and then another. Everything that you thought you knew about your spouse has been called into question.
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It’s not easy learning how to get over an affair. Not because you have no wish to save the marriage. You do and so does your spouse. They have come to realize the damage they inflicted on you as well as the marital relationship and are doing everything in their power to rebuild the marriage.
You are starting to see it on a regular basis when it comes to marriage infidelity among some public figures. They get caught and then find themselves going before the media to make the standard apology. Whether they believe it or not is open to interpretation but one thing is for sure.
One thing about marriage infidelity is unless the guilty party is so cavalier and brazen about their extra marital affair then the best way to keep the indiscretion going is to make sure their spouse remains unaware to what is going on.