Johnnie S Laney

When it comes to relationship skills, women are highly skilled compared to men. Women are highly practiced in the domain of relatedness. They know a lot.

How is it that women are “masters” at relationships? More specifically, how can it possibly be said of you, who may have a past “littered” with the bleaching bones of dead relationships and failed couplings? The reasons for this are twofold. First, you are connected to and processing Feminine energy, which has to do with Affinity and Connection. Secondly, you were raised differently than men.

When you were a young girl, you played with dolls and you played house and you played at imaginary tea parties. The fact that most all women play with dolls (figurines, stuffed animals, etc.) as young girls is no trivial matter. Around the world, in almost every culture, girls play with dolls in some form.

What does it matter that you played with dolls? Well, playing with dolls is playing at relationship. It is playing and practicing nurturing and empathy and communication skills.

Amazing! We have a worldwide culture where girls “play” at nurturing. Nurturing is a high feminine quality. Women get into the connection and expression of the Deep Feminine at a very early age. (Meanwhile, boys are playing with “toy” guns.)

Not only that, little girls play house and have imaginary tea parties. Again, this is remarkable. At an imaginary tea party girls (or a girl and her dolls) will sit around and pretend to drink tea or coffee and eat pretend (or real) cookies. While this is happening they are doing something else that is High Feminine.

They are communicating and connecting! Nesting, cooperating, nurturing, caring and bonding through communication are high feminine qualities. You grew up with the high feminine flowing through your veins. You played with it when you were a child. As a young girl, you developed and practiced these skills. Boys, in general, do not. They play army and shout “I shot you, you’re dead!”

So when it comes to relationships, women have a lot of skill and knowledge. If you are a woman, use this knowledge! Train your man to cooperate and nurture. Don’t just role model it, talk about being other centered and the value you get from nurturing. If you are a man, learn from your woman. You can both come out ahead.

You can learn much more about this in the free course 7 Vital Relationship Insights You Never Learned In School at Fix Relationship Problems Fast. Johnnie S Laney teaches relationship courses and you can get more here Advice For Relationships.

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