Family is about fidelity in lots of way, and men and women have different reasons for breaking their vows and commitment. While men cheat because of sex, a woman will usually cheat on her husband when she no longer feels loved or appreciated.
The possibility to travel around and be independent creates the premises for wives’ infidelity. Thus, gender no longer matters for statistics on infidelity.
A woman cheating on husband will keep everything a secret if she doesn’t want to leave her husband. The problem is that women tend to become emotionally involved a lot more easily, and a woman can thus come to neglect her family life because the way she feels has changed. The reactions against a woman cheating on husband cover a wide range of emotions, but outsiders should usually refrain from judging. It is difficult to be a moralist and inappropriate.
This is not a justification of adultery. I am simply saying that people would improve their lives a lot including in relation with their fidelity issues if they ceased to pass ethical judgments. Yes, it seems wrong to cheat, to mislead and lie, and from a certain perspective it is. But the ups and downs of a relationship could lead someone into an affair. There is always a reason for cheating, that is sure fact.
Cheating on husband cases have higher chances of ending up with a divorce or a permanent separation than cheating on wife situations. This usually happens because men are less inclined to get over infidelity problems. Forgiveness and generosity are usually expected from women who have the reputation of trying to keep the family together. Problems may appear when there are special economic, religious or cultural views and beliefs involved.
Loss of trust, legal separation, repudiation and the loss of children custody are among the ugliest consequences of adultery and divorce. Thus a woman cheating on husband may go through a bigger drama if together with her spouse she loses her children too. If the couple decides to give it one more try, it will take time before the spouses can build trust again.
i was told 4 days before our 13 widnedg aniv. in october and 2 day before our week vacation. i chose to take the vacation hopping things would work out. we even took the march vacation things kept going back and forth. we even planned a vacation with some of his family for a november 2008 vacation he was still being nice. i know now he was only being nice because if i did not go on this vacation he was not going to get to go because the other family members were going to back out if i did not go. now what does that tell you about that. (he was taking collect calls from her while she was in jail) i filed for a divorce because he wanted me to, then he wanted me to cancel because he wanted to be married. then he filed not telling me. he left year ago in june 2008, divorce will be about one year coming this october. he left me for a married drug using slut she took him for over $70,000.00 and has now droped him for her husband. now he is with another slut that about ended us before we married she lives out of state and for some reason she can’t leave the state, or can’t take the kids (2 diffrent dad’s) out of the state another winner. even though it has been over a year i still want him back i’m 50 years old and i don’t want to start all over again. my mind is telling me to move on, but the heart is saying hold on. i know how you feel. only you can figure out what to do.