Quickies
Wednesday, January 27th, 2010There’s a lot of hype around about long, all-nighters, about the need for extensive foreplay to get things going, the use of sex toys and switching positions thirty five times to extend the session. Now, there’s nothing wrong with extensive sexy exploits, they certainly have their place in any sexually active relationship. However, let’s not forget about the unsung hero, the ‘quickie’.
Many men think that most women don’t enjoy these hurried encounters, or that women can’t be fully contented by them. This suggestion, as unfortunately common as it is, can’t be further from the truth. But on the other side of that coin, a lot of women out there who feel as though asking for a passionate sexy get-together on the hiking trail or at the office will make them look easy or dirty. Please, don’t think in thismanner. Men that think less of women for needing to convey her sexuality and her desire for him in non-standard ways are quite rare indeed.
The usual woman, while pleasuring herself, can achieve orgasm in less than 3 minutes, that exact same woman can arrive at the same end in a bit less than eight minutes through intercourse. Plus, the emotional strength of a quick romp in the back seat of a car, and the further excitement of possibly someone catching you will often help those participating in reaching the final result even more quickly. This means that in most cases a woman can be plenty satisfied by end of a speedy ‘gathering’, and even if time runs out before either or both are able to reach orgasm it’s still fun and can add some pleasure to your day.
Proper sex toy information also have the ability to add to the ‘quickie’ experience as they don’t always have to be completely spur-of-the-moment. For couples who are skilled users of sex toys, and even anybody who would like to try something new, keep a travel sized sex toy, such as the layaspot vibrator or two with you next time you take an outing. If you keep a mini, discrete sex toy on you provides you even more options for excitement when the feeling hits. There are vibrating sex toys (which should typically only be used where there is a lot of noise which are easily be used on women and men, another option is finger vibrators, which are usually rubber and are put over the end of your fingers and are bumpy or have ridges for added fun. In addition, you can get sex toys that are made to please the man such as special gloves used to improve hand stimulation or other type of male masturbator, Fleshlights are my favorite and you can easily find a great Fleshlights if you look around a bit.
There are a number of popular places to rendez-vous, including:
¢ On the kitchen table
¢ In your car
¢ In a supply closet
¢ In a public bathroom (in one that’s clean)
¢ In the forest on a hike
¢ Or whenever you’re feeling frisky!
So don’t forget, particularly for you shy women out there, be vocal, let your partner know when you’re in the mood and be creative! Quite often the best sex can be quickie sex in a random, quasi-public place at 2:55 p.m.
