How many women hold out the hope that the married man they are fooling around with is going to one day leave his wife? Probably quite a lot. And while it may happen on occasion most of these women never realize until it’s way late in the game that the guy their fooling around with has no intention of leaving.
Just ask Sarah Symonds who is making it part of her life’s work to hip women to the realities of being the mistress.
From The Times Herald:
Recovering from infidelity is a long and involved process. You’re right to be hesitant, given the fact that your wife has been unfaithful more than once throughout your history together.
Sometimes a spouse can be in a pattern of cheating, getting caught, being remorseful, and falling into the cheating again after the marriage has gone back to “normal.” In your efforts to repair your marriage, you need to make certain that you’re breaking this pattern.
I do not know how they figure this out but here you go:
The study on the autopsy reports involved “only a very modest number of patients,” and thus “there is no way to know how much, if any, an extramarital affair relationship truly increases risk or the mechanism,” said Levine, who directs the Cardiac Care Unit at the Michael E. DeBakey VA Medical Center.
“I would not blow this too out of context,” he said. “Without being sarcastic, I really can state that I have not ever had a patient who asked me about the cardiac risks of an extramarital affair.”
It’s a dicey proposition because the reality is you do not know if it will happen again. Many victims of infidelity understandably refuse to take that chance. Here are three women however who did decided to give their philandering spouses another opportunity.
Even though your marriage may be getting worse, you and your partner may have decided to do what’s necessary to make things right again. Although couples counseling certainly isn’t for everyone, it can be very beneficial so the couples can begin to work out their problems.
