Nice Guy or Patsy

DerBingle

You meet a girl then after a reasonable amount of time tried to take the relationship to another level. What was their response?  The old  ”you are too good a friend to even consider such a thing” line.

Your reply? You understand completely.  Was there ever any doubt? That’s what you always wind up saying in your quest for a dating relationship

You smile diplomatically and almost genuine as you feel that knot in your stomach (again) as you head back to take your seat on the sidelines.

Are you doing anything wrong? It could be that you have just been unlucky in meeting the right women or you could be…

1. Agreeing Too Much

You like what she says on just about every subject.  Even when you have a different opinion you still agree .

That might work in junior high have but in the real world , women like to know your opinion. Having her words regurgitated back to her time and again is not flattering. It means you are afraid to express yourself which can be taken as a sign of weakness.

2. Chase Too Much

Calling, emailing and or texting are one thing but not knowing when to give the other person breathing room is another thing entirely. You may think it’s flattering but  you are probably creeping her out.

3. Everything for Her

Buying anything and everything for her; even if she didn’t want or ask for it. From your point of view, it’s just your way of letting her know how much you care. From her perspective she can’t help but think she’s got a flunky with an unlimited expense account.

Women want a man they can respect. One who has his own thoughts and opinions and can agree to disagree. A guy who understands that in the dating game, being chased is a two way street and that it is more than okay to say no from time to time.

In other words you can still be a nice guy without being a pushover. Have confidence in yourself and confidence that women can tell the difference.

Discover what you should NEVER do if you want to have a successful long-term relationship.