by Phil Burnett

If you think there is a chance that your spouse might be cheating on you, I want to show you a quick and easy way to find out for sure. Dealing with this type of suspicion can grate on your nerves – you deserve to know the truth about whether or not your partner is being faithful.

There are more and more people that are hiring private investigators to “spy” on their spouse. However, you don’t need to go to such an extreme! Whenever we get an email from someone who is considering using a private investigator to see if anything “fishy” is going on, we always recommend using the following method first.

This method is quick, incredibly simple and will barely cost you a dime. There are only three steps you need to follow so let’s go over each of them one-by-one.

Step #1 – Could Your Spouse Be Cheating?

In the first step you need to be a touch on the sneaky side. You will need to get a hold of your spouse’s cell phone for about 15 minutes so you can look at it without worrying about anyone walking in and “catching” you.

Make sure you pick a good time! Your spouse might have just jumped in the shower or is out with friends without their phone. Just make sure you have about 15 minutes to yourself.

Now that you have their phone in hand you are going to look at their call history that is stored on their phone. You want to look for both the ‘incoming’ and ‘outgoing’ call history list. When you find it, write down every phone number that you see on a piece of paper.

If there are some phone numbers you recognize you don’t have to write them down. Just make sure you are jotting down every other phone number you see.

When you are done, put the phone back and move on to the next step.

Step #2 – Is Your Spouse Cheating On You?

In front of you there should be a list of all the phone numbers that your spouse has either called or been called by. Now it’s time to figure who is behind each of these numbers and find out exactly who they have been talking to. With only a phone number, you can find out someone’s full name, address, location details and background information.

How is this done? There are companies that pu together databases that contain information on the owner information for every phone number (this includes cell phone and unlisted numbers). These companies then let people search through the database to find out information on any phone number they want to “investigate”.

This type of service is available online to the general public. It’s called a “reverse phone search” and will instantly how you the person’s name and details right on your computer screen.

Use the link at the bottom of this article so that you can try a free sample search and see how this type of service works.

As you have probably guessed, there is a fee for this service. It’s not expensive though. The cheapest way to use it is to find a company that offers unlimited searches for a one-time only charge. This way you are only billed once and can run a search on as many phone numbers as you want.

Now you need to go through the list of phone numbers you have and run a reverse phone search for each one. Write down the information you discover for each one on your sheet of paper next to the number.

After you have finished doing this, it’s time to move on to our final step.

Step #3 – Is Your Spouse Cheating On You?

In this final step it’s time to look over our results and see what we come up with. You know have a list of exactly who your spouse has been talking to and how often. Anything suspicious is going to jump right out at you.

Pay attention to the names that you see on your list. There are many times that people will suspect that their spouse is seeing someone else in particular – if this fits your situation, does that person’s name show up?

When you know who your spouse has been communicating with, it’s easy to see if there is reason to think that they might be cheating. This easy “detective’s trick” gives you a simple way to discover if your spouse is being unfaithful and see if you are being treated with the respect you deserve.

Check out www.easyreversephonelookup.com to try a free sample reverse phone lookup on any phone number. Click the following link to find out how to catch a cheater using tried and tested techniques!

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