My age is now 64 and I have not found someone to be with in almost 5 decades. I dont know why I cant find anyone is it because im too kind.

One of the main reasons that I feel lonely is because everyone I know is now married and has kids. Ok I have a nice home and a nice vehicle, but I have spent so much time grafting for it that I now have no one to share it all with.

One of my close family members told me I needed a break and to be honest I havent taken one for ages. I walked to my local travel agents and they showed me a choice of Bali spa holidays. Looking through the brochure, one instantly caught my attention and I had never really been on that kind of trip before.

When I arrived the hotel was like heaven. It was probably the third day into the trip when I visited the sauna, as soon as I walked in an amazing lady caught my eye. Not to bore you, I will make this short, we got chatting and then decided to spend the rest of the holiday together. When we returned home we decided to tie the knot, my family thought it was to early, but I was just getting too old to wait. Five years on I am now happier then ever, although we can't have kids because of our age, at least I know that I will always have someone beside me. Going to spa hotels is something I now regularly do as a couple.