by Tina Jones

Are you good at flirting with a guy? Are you really good? Do you pay attention to both the verbal and non-verbal techniques? Are you subtle, or do you come across as too strong?

Flirting is an art form in itself. And while many women have a difficult time, there are a few techniques that you can learn to help you flirt with a guy.

Tip 1: Subtlety. When you are subtle, your actions come across as natural. They don’t seem forced or over-the-top.

They don’t scare a guy off. When you are natural, you automatically exude a confidence that men find attractive. It seems like you are having fun, and guys like to be with people who are fun!

Tip 2: Eye Contact. This is in many ways the most important part of flirting. If you are across the room, subtle glances are the way to get a guy’s attention.

Remember Tip 1, though, and be subtle. Staring across the room at someone is not flirting. It is creepy. And after you’ve gotten into a conversation with the guy, it is important to keep eye contact while talking.

This shows you are interested. And holding his gaze for a few seconds shows a little more.

Tip 3. Smiling. No one likes to be around a gloomy person. Smiling shows that you are an upbeat, positive person. It shows you are fun to be around.

A subtle smile can be flashed to a guy from across a room. When the two of you are talking, laughter, even a small giggle, can show that your interest has grown.

Tip 4. Whispering. When the two of you are finally talking, you can lean in and whisper something in his ear. This doesn’t mean to whisper every part of the conversation (remember tip 1!).

And, of course, this may not be possible if you are in a noisy bar, but this can give you an added excuse to lean in to him and talk calmly—no yelling! This can also help to lead you into the next tip:

Tip 5. Touching. Finding an excuse to brush something off his shoulder is a good excuse to touch. Or lightly touching his arm when you are making a particularly important point.

If you’re sitting next to each other, put your hand on his shoulder the next time you get up. Skin-to-skin touch is even better than skin-to-clothes—your hand on his bare arm, for instance, rather than his sleeve.

These are just a few tips that can help you to become an expert at flirting with guys.

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