Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

“I often tend to attract the one who’s emotionally unavailable. What can I do to change my vibration”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the strongest complaint I recurred from my lengthy string of failed relationships. They were either emotionally unavailable, lived out of town or was travelling a great deal.

When you keep attracting unavailable relationships, my question to you is, “Is there an aspect of your life that has a fear of commitment, or afraid to be transparent in a love relationship”? That may be hard to take in at the moment, but that’s what I have found to be the situation most of the time.

As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get very clear about what you want. Get clear by creating a list of the qualities you want in your perfect match.

You make the list for yourself so you can get clarity about what it is you truly desire. You’ll begin to realize where any weaknesses are in your vibration as you make the list. You’ll see where you need to go to increase your level of creation or belief in the likelihood of creating what you are desiring.

To evoke the state of feeling happy expectancy, next ask yourself the question “Why do I want this”? It’s time to engage your imagination.

When you answer this question, imagine all the wonderful things you’ll do together. Think of grinning, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Think of what it’ll be like to be with someone who’s romantic and loves to bring you flowers.

You make the list for you, and the Universe recognizes your clear vibration – the pure intention and unresisted desire!

Most of us have been trained from childhood to accept whatever you get, it is not kosher to ask for favors, why can’t you just be content with what you have? – kind of like programming. I suggest you ask for it all and continue feeling yourself into the alignment of your affirmations.