Don’t tell his wife
From Ellie Tesher, For The Calgary Herald:
Q: Last year, I met a man on a dating website; we developed an intense and satisfying relationship, but I soon suspected that he was hiding something.
After some digging, I discovered that he was married. His wife’s family co-owned his business. He’s having an affair with one of his employees, and he’s dating another woman on the side. (Talk about busy.)
Even though I ended the relationship, I’m still mortified, not only because of his deceit, but also because we had unprotected sex.
I feel a lot of compassion for his wife. I’d like to tell her what’s going on behind her back, but I don’t know if I should.
– Wavering
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