by Dr. Gilda Carle, Ph.D.
40% - 70% of partners cheat on their spouses, according to a study from the University of Montreal. This makes infidelity the new relationship norm!! Well, 2008 was quite a year for these horndogs! Boy George told the Times of London, “I don’t believe you have to be monogamous, but you have to be respectful.” What would the wives and ex-wives of the guys on this list say about that?
(more Top 10 Horndogs Of 2008…)
This of course came out after the John Edwards extramarital affair came to light.
Most of the time when you talk to a spouse who has committed adultery, they will say, “I never meant for this to happen.” While this might be a half truth, the issue is they allowed the opportunities to arise where cheating became a possibility.
(more Avoiding the Temptation to Cheat…)
Recently we have been receiving a number of emails from people wondering how they can find out if their spouse is cheating on them. There’s actually an easy way to do this - if you have any suspicious, you owe it to yourself to find out the truth about your relationship.
Private investigators are getting more and more clients that are hiring them to spy on their spouse’s and find out if they are cheating. Trust me - you don’t have to go to such lengths to get the truth! We always recommend using the following tactic as your first step towards finding out whether or not your partner is cheating.
(more Is Your Spouse Cheating?…)
If you haven’t heard of the statistic, close to 30% of married men are in the category ‘cheating married man’. They exist everywhere regardless on how or where they look for their prey. This basically means that for single women out there, chances are pretty good that you will cross path with one of them.
From The Times Online
I had to ask my wife who was Gordon Ramsay since she is more in tune with shows on the Food Network than I am. Come to find out he’s not on the Food Network but he is on FOX and apparantly is very popular in the UK.
Well what about him? It looks like he got himself into a mess of his own making but for him the good news is his wife Tana is sticking by him. Sound familiar?
Kate Spicer @ The Times Online
Many wives are pragmatic about this state of affairs. As the wife of two unfaithful men, Annabel Goldsmith said in 1987: “I can never understand the wives who really mind, the wives who set such store by fidelity. How extraordinary and how mad they are. Because, surely, if the man goes out and he comes back, it’s not actually doing any harm.” Goldsmith was the late Jimmy Goldsmith’s mistress before she was his wife. It was he, of course, who uttered the memorable truism: “If you marry your mistress, you create a vacancy.”
Alpha males, like rock stars, MPs, princes and tycoons, with their incredible egos and rampant, childlike need for attention, wealth and opportunity, are particularly prone to such behaviour.
Umm no. Rock stars, MPs, princes and tycoons use their status to justify their behavior. These men could be working in the grease pit at Jiffy Lube and they would still find a way to cheat on their wives.
Still this a fascinating article.
(more Why women stand by their cheating husbands…)
by Samson Itoje
Some web sites promote what is called discreet flirting. Such web sites connect men and women, married or single, and encourage members to go beyond just friendship to something more intimate. These web sites openly promote illicit sexual behavior and tell married people that cheating on their partners is modern and smart.
Unfortunately, these web sites and their promoters have a great following. Consequently, flirting has grown from just an epidemic to a pandemic. No wonder many marriages are failing!
(more Flirting - A betrayal of Trust…)
We heard about this a few days ago. Matthew Moore fills in the details:
More than three-quarters of the adulterous multi-millionaire men surveyed said they planned to spend less money on gifts and treats for their lovers, and 82 per cent planned to cut their regular payments.
Affairs that have lasted several years will be most vulnerable during the impending recession, with wealthy people of both sexes more likely to support lovers they have taken within the last one to three years.
I couldn’t help but get the impression when I read this article that it sounds like a company that’s making a decision to downsize. Weird.
(more Wealthy men cut gifts to mistresses during financial crisis…)
Don’t answer that but if you are and are thinking about confessing than The Canadian has made a list of ten things you ought to know first.
Get a good detective, a better lawyer and take them for all they are worth. Doing this is not going work.