by Nicole Gayle

I’ve written many articles with the main theme of self love and respect when someone whom you love wants out or has already gone. And I have read many articles on how to get an ex back.

If you believe that you deserve better than being dumped, then you’ll want to listen to what I have to say.

You were not created to beg, whether its feeling financially improvised or at the mercies of an ex. It is beneath your dignity and worth as a human being.

There’s nothing wrong with wanting to save your relationship or family but when it consumes your life that you’re literally obsessed so much so that you cheat yourself in the process, this is when you are not functioning from a place of love.

There’s true love and then there’s addiction. True love will cause you to love yourself first by protecting your dignity and self worth.

Addiction will cause you to grovel, manipulate, appease, be a doormat, stay in denial, promise your ex you’ll change, tell your ex how much you love him/her etc. Addiction to a fantasy of wanting a relationship will literally drive you to do things that you may regret.

If you are a “Beg My Ex” addict, you’ll need to detox by allowing yourself to detach from wishful thinking and begin dealing with reality.

When you deal with reality, you can reinvent yourself and make your life so amazing. When you begin to do life from this point of view, you’ll attract only the best to you.

You are better than begging because you were born to rule. Begging is for folks who don’t know their true identity. Beggars don’t understand that they don’t have to come down low to get what they want out of life.

Nicole Gayle is the Author of the ebook, “What to Do When Your Partner Wants Out,” written after the breakup of her marriage of 8 years. Nicole recently appeared on City TV’s Breakfast Television to talk about her book - http://www.citytv.com – Get instant download now at http://www.whenyourpartnerwantsout.com and subscribe to her blog at http://www.whenyourpartnerwantsout.blogspot.com

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